Transgender people date transgender people
If you are cis who are reading this article, what you are seeing is true, it is not necessary for trans people to date cis people or find love among them. There are lots of words you can see from Twitter, Facebook and other social networking sites that cis people and gay trans bashers express they don’t want to date a trans people. That’s ridiculous. Does any trans people said they wanted to date you? The majority of transgender people are pansexual like others. As gender and sexuality can be fluid. So, despite these ignorant comments, keep the fact in mind that not all trans people are found of cis people. Although there are lots of similar problems in transgenders dating other transgenders, what is certain that the anxiety in this dating has been greatly reduced, but we are still here giving advice on what people should not do.
Don’t think you know everything about transgender life
Each trans people have different experience, different levels of anxiety, and even the adaptation to environmental conditions. The topic about transgender rarely appears on other trans people, but if it happens, do not think you are a transgender expert. Some people are fortunate to be in a position to get the understanding of the family and friends, and many trans people do not. It has a big difference. Although one may wish to be open to his/her transgender, the other may still bear the burden of being regarded as humiliating, and remain silent on the subject. Anxiety is different to them. Many people feel extremely uneasy about their genitals, and some are dealing with their current situation. Obviously, if trans people want to discuss the topic, it must discuss it when both sides feel comfortable.
Respect for each other’s way of life
Minorities in the United States, from my perspective, because of oppression, they unfortunately learned how to further oppress themselves. This is the case in every culture, some even more than others, and transgender community is no different. For transgender people, many people oppose this view as a community, but many of them want to remain undetected among the cis. If that’s the way he chose to live, it doesn’t matter. If you think your date doesn’t meet these criteria, or if you think their findings are negative for the community, don’t throw them away. Respect for the way they choose to live, just as you choose your life, in this case of mutual respect, your happy love will blossom and bear fruit.
Respect each other
It’s easy as long as they respect the pronouns they like, the terms they choose to express themselves, and how they view their bodies. Dating transgender people may not be so exhausting, but it still requires you to truly respect your partner’s choices, rather than assuming they are exactly the same as yours. Remember, respect the person you want to be respected. As transsexual people, they deserve it, and they need it.